How to Improve Your Life In Just One Month
Is your life feeling a little stale
and are you ready to make some satisfying changes?
Well, you don’t have to wait until
the New Year to start improving your life. September is self-improvement month,
which means you have four weeks to polish the rust and smooth the wrinkles in
your life.
Since “improving your life” can seem
a little ambiguous, we’ve put together the following tips for a week-by-week
guide on self-improvement.
Week
1: Take a Mental Vacay
How often do we take care of our
mental health? Probably not often enough!
Instead, we beat ourselves up for
our shortcomings, compare our weaknesses to others’ strengths, call ourselves
“fat” or “ugly” every time we look in the mirror, feel guilty over the past and
then sit and wonder why we don’t feel happier.
Let’s put a stop to the vicious
mental cycle.
For the first week of September,
it’s time to take a mental vacation.
Don’t Drive Into the Past
Living in the past is like trying to drive a car while
constantly looking out the rearview mirror—it doesn’t exactly make for a very
promising future!
Take time this week to forgive
yourself for things in the past you may regret, and move forward.
It’s not just Frozen characters who
can “Let It Go.” You can too.
One way to let go of the past is by
taking time each day to reflect on the good things you have done. Smile and
give yourself a mental pat on the back each day.
Practice Gratitude
Another way to jumpstart your mental
health is by practicing gratitude.
The reason gratitude is so important
is because is causes you to shift your focus from what you feel your life may
be lacking, to realizing how abundant your life really is.
My mom is great at reminding me of
this—whenever I complain about anything hard in my life, she’ll always point
out someone who’s in a worse situation and remind me that I have a lot to be
thankful for. Although in the moment I’m always wishing she’d just wallow in my
misery with me, she is absolutely right.
By practicing gratitude regularly,
you can change your whole outlook on life.
In fact, psychological and
behavioral research have shown that giving thanks can make people happier,
improve relationships, decrease stress and may even improve health.
So take a little time each day this
week to say “thank you.”
Week
2: Go Nuts With Nutrition
You know when you have those weeks
where your nutrition is an epic fail and you eat nothing but junk food? I know
I’ve had those weeks. But this is a great chance to start fresh. Take the
second week of September to really focus on eating healthy.
When eating your meals, take note of a few things: does your
pasta salad or giant steak take up more than half of your dinner plate? If so,
try cutting your serving in half.
Filling half of your dinner plate
with veggies or fruit makes it harder to overdo it on high-caloric foods.
Also, try replacing your caffeinated
sodas and Frappuccino’s with herbal teas, and dust off the old Magic Bullet
Blender and whip up a tasty fruit smoothie (minus the added sugar) or protein
shake.
Craving a good snack? Say goodbye to
the potato chips and say hello to wholesome nuts like almonds, walnuts, or
pistachios. Not only are nuts are a filling snack food, but they provide an
excellent source of omega-6 and omega-3 fatty acids.
Do note: since nuts are high in fat,
they are also higher in calories, so try to keep the munching to one serving
size a day (about one ounce or 28 grams).
Lastly, if you’re struggling with
your sweet tooth, resist the tempting call of the cheesecake siren and enjoy
some orange slices or a handful of blueberries instead. They’ll help satisfy
your sugar cravings and are plumped full of beneficial antioxidants and Vitamin
C.
Water Bottle Check
Did you know that the body is
composed of about 60 percent water? It’s true. In fact, the body uses water to
aid in circulation, digestion, the creation of saliva, transportation of
nutrients, the maintenance of body temperatures and absorption.
On the flip side, we constantly lose
bodily fluids from breathing, sweating, body waste and more.
That’s why it’s so crucial that we
drink enough water to help maintain good health.
Set a goal to keep a water bottle
handy. Keep one at your work desk, in your gym bag, on your nightstand, taped to
your forehead—wherever it needs to be to remind you to drink up.
Week 3: Let’s Get Physical
You don’t have to go buy a treadmill
to get your exercise in—grab your iPod and find a new running or walking trail
instead.
Join a city swimming club, try your
hand at yoga or go rock climbing.
And that gym membership that you’re
paying for but never use? This is definitely the week to put it to good use.
One tip: if you’re having a hard
time keeping motivated with the exercise, find a good workout buddy. Having a
fitness friend can give you the inspiration and the jumpstart you need to keep
going.
Week
4: Do Things a Little Differently
One of the best ways to self-improve
is by trying new things.
Do you spend a lot of time watching TV? Try reading a book
every day for a week instead. The more you read, the more wisdom you expose
yourself to.
Here are some other fun ideas: learn
to yodel (why not?), start journaling, make a fancy dinner every night, learn
to play chess, start meditating, try karaoke, forgive and be nice to someone
who hates you (you might be surprised by the results), take scenic photographs
… and the list goes on.
For me, I’ve decided to step out of
my comfort zone and signed up for the company volleyball tournament this month.
(This could prove to be horrifying since I haven’t played volleyball since 9th
grade PE, but at least I’ll be trying something new as well as getting a good
workout in. Two birds with one stone.)
Point being, the options for
enriching yourself are endless!
Ready,
Set, Go!
Ready for a positive change in your
life? Let’s make September self-improvement happen.
You’ll be glad you did.
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